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As early as she can remember, Erica Kay-Webster felt like a female.
"I remember being referred to as a boy and it just didn't register," she said. "I'm a girl. Why can't that be seen?"
Raised by a Pentecostal minister in Southern California, Kay-Webster said school was a nightmare. "I thought I was stupid, that something was wrong with me," she said. "I carried around a great deal of shame, and so I spent so much time hiding." She had gender reassignment surgery when she was 17 in 1968.
Today, she serves as the Founder and Executive Director of the Foundation, and in the past, she served as vice president of Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). She also served on the Massachusetts Regional Commission on Homelessness for Cape Cod and the Islands. Today she serves as a community organizer of the LGBT Compassion Games and as the media spokesperson for COMPASSION GAMES as a PEACE AMBASSADOR. She has been the featured speaker at local and national Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender community events and at numerous churches.
She survived social and domestic abuse, sexual trauma, bullying. homelessness, suicide attempts and false imprisonment; but nothing could stop her courageous ascension. From Stonewall to the United Nations, Erica Kay-Webster, (author, activist, public speaker, minister, entrepreneur, CEO and wife), established A MOST PERFECT LOVE FOUNDATION, supporting marginalized communities on all four corners of the globe.
We have carried the fire through storms and silence. We have risen from ashes not of our making; from children displaced, voices erased lives denied light because of where they were born or how they were born to love.
But the flame has not gone out.
This is the moment when compassion must become action.
When we must build not only hope,
but homes. Not only dreams, but schools.
Not only prayers, but wells that flow with water and clinics that flow with healing. The forgotten children of war, famine, and poverty, they are not invisible.
The silenced LGBTQ+ youth cast out by fear, they are not disposable. They are ours. They are you. They are me. And they are waiting. Waiting for us to do more than witness. Waiting for us to rise. Let us be the generation that builds sanctuaries,
not walls. Let us feed not just bodies,
but souls. Let us turn pain into purpose,
scar into story, and story into solution.
Because justice without action is just a whisper. And love without sacrifice is just a sentiment. So take this torch; not as a burden, but as a blessing. Light the way forward.
with your giving,
your voice,
your heart.
They are waiting.
Let them wait no longer.
“To recognize these passionate heroes who fought on the front lines is to recognize how far we have come, and how far we still need to go as a country to ensure safety and equality for all Americans.”
Washington, DC — PFLAG National Executive Director Jody M. Huckab reacted to the designation of the Stonewall National Monument:
“PFLAG would like to thank President Obama for ensuring the recognition by our government of the history of the LGBTQ movement as part of the history of America. His designation of the Stonewall Inn and the surrounding area as the first national monument commemorating this movement honors hallowed ground, where brave activists like Morty Manford, PFLAG leader and trans activist Erica Kay-Webster, Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and hundreds more said enough is enough, and stood up against violence and bias toward the LGBTQ community.”
PFLAG is the nation’s largest organization dedicated to supporting, educating, and advocating for LGBTQ+ people and those who love them.
PFLAG is an organization of LGBTQ+ people, parents, families, and allies who work together to create an equitable and inclusive world.
We are hundreds of thousands of people and hundreds of chapters from coast to coast who are leading with love to support families, educate allies, and advocate for just, equitable, and inclusive legislation and policies.
Since our founding in 1973, PFLAG works every day to ensure LGBTQ+ people everywhere are safe, celebrated, empowered, and loved.
Learn more, find support, donate, and take action.
Click the link below.
The Gay Pride Flag, also known as the Rainbow Flag, originated in 1978 and was created by Gilbert Baker, an openly gay artist, activist, and Vietnam War veteran. He was commissioned by Harvey Milk, one of the first openly gay elected officials in the U.S., to create a symbol of pride for the LGBTQ+ community to fly at the San Francisco Gay Freedom Day Parade. Baker saw flags as the most powerful symbol of pride and unity; a language without words. The very first rainbow flag had eight stripes, and each color held a specific symbolic meaning:
Hot Pink – Sex
Red – Life
Orange – Healing
Yellow – Sunlight
Green – Nature
Turquoise – Magic/Art
Indigo – Serenity
Violet – Spirit
This flag was hand-dyed and hand-stitched. Hot pink fabric was expensive and difficult to source, so when the flag was mass-produced in 1979, hot pink was removed. The most widely recognized version of the flag is the six-striped version, which emerged after 1979:
Red – Life
Orange – Healing
Yellow – Sunlight
Green – Nature
Blue – Harmony/Peace
Violet – Spirit
Turquoise and indigo were merged into a single blue stripe to simplify production and allow for even stripes. The Rainbow Flag became more than just a banner, it became an international symbol of visibility, pride, resistance, and hope for the LGBTQ+ community. It embraces diversity and celebrates unity in difference, much like the spectrum of colors coming together in a single arc. A Declaration of Presence: At a time when being openly gay was dangerous, the flag boldly claimed public space.
A Symbol of Love and Freedom: It challenges shame, stigma, and marginalization with beauty and openness.
A Living, Evolving Emblem: Over time, new variations of the flag have emerged, such as the Progress Pride Flag and the Transgender Flag, to honor the full spectrum of identities within the community. The flag flies not just as a celebration, but as a memorial, an act of defiance, and a pledge to keep fighting; for safety, dignity, equality, and love.
In a sky once silent, hidden and gray
A whisper rose with the break of day
A thread of color, stitched with grace
To give the unseen a sacred place
Not just a flag, but a living breath
Born from the ache of silence and death
Eight stripes first flew with a fierce desire
Each hue a hymn, a spark, a fire
Hot Pink for bodies unshamed and free
Red for the pulse of life’s decree
Orange for healing soft and wide
Yellow for sunlight that would not hide
Green for nature wild and wise
Turquoise for magic in open skies
Indigo for serenity’s call
Violet for spirit that binds it all
But cloth was rare and cost was high
So pink was lost to a mourning sky
Turquoise and indigo found new form
Merged as blue in a rising storm
Then six stripes rose in 1979
A simplified banner bold by design
It waved with joy from soul to soul
A legacy stitched to make us whole
Red for the beating heart of life
Orange for healing after strife
Yellow for sunlight breaking through
Green for earth and all that’s true
Blue for peace in every fight
Violet for spirit fierce and bright
This was the flag that caught the wind
In marches vigils love unpinned
It flew in grief it flew in grace
It carved a home in public space
But still the banner dared to grow
For truth runs deeper than we know
And voices long kept in the shade
Called for justice long delayed
Black for those whose lives were lost
Brown for the roots and the heavy cost
White pink and light blue entwined
Trans colors sacred redefined
They point like arrows to the sky
Saying we are here and we will not die
So the Progress Flag with stripes renewed
Carries the flame of a broader truth
It honors the many still unseen
The black the brown the in-between
It tells the world we’re still becoming
We’re still resisting we’re still homecoming
From Stonewall’s cry to today’s parade
This banner is the love we made
So raise it high where stories unfold
A skybound promise in scarlet and gold
For we are the many the brave the true
And every color still carries you.
Piper Dellums 6/21/2025
O Sacred Ones,
You who walk with two feet in many worlds
You are not broken.
You are not lost.
You are ancient.
Before borders, before binaries,
Before the forgetting
You were already here
Seen by the Elders,
Blessed by the Sky People,
Named by the drumbeats of the Earth.
You are not “other.”
You are whole.
You are the thunderbird with two wings. You are the mountain that speaks in more than one tongue.
You are the fire that holds both flame and ash,
The river that knows both source and sea.
You are the Oneness of the Oneness.
Neither confined nor divided,
But woven
By the Creator who dreams in all directions.
You carry within you
the medicine of balance,
the bridge between the sun and moon,
the sacred harmony of masculine and feminine, sky and soil,
being and becoming.
The ignorant may call you names.
The frightened may cast you out.
But we see you.
And we call you:
Truthwalker. Wisdomkeeper. Spirit Weaver.
You were never meant to conform.
You were sent to transform.
To teach the world that identity is sacred ceremony,
That love is not bound by body,
That the soul is a spectrum
dancing in and out of form,
as Spirit does.
So when you feel alone,
Remember:
Your ancestors danced in your bones.
They wore feathers and paint. They carried dreams from both sides of the fire.
They honored you.
So must we.
To our Two-Spirit family,
To our Transcendent kin
You are not transsexual.
You are transcendental.
Trans-Elemental.
Trans-Miraculous.
You are here
not to survive this world
but to help it remember
how to love without condition,
how to see without separation,
how to become without fear.
May you walk in beauty,
Speak with thunder,
Dream in both directions,
And know always
You are not alone.
You are prophesied.
You are perfectly placed.
You are Divine.
Piper Dellums 6/21/2025
O Great Spirit who weaves the cosmos in hues unseen
Who speaks in flame in feather in stream
You called us forth from the womb of silence
To rise in color to sing in light
To dance our truth upon the sky
In the beginning we were scattered stars
Whispers in bone echoes in water
Yet we remembered the song of return
The sacred ribbon of who we are
So we stitched a banner from the breath of the ancestors
Hot Pink the breath of creation the sacred fire of flesh
Where touch is holy and bodies are drums
Red the river of life pulsing through lineage and land
The bloodline of warriors and dreamers
Orange the healing flame of the West
Where grief becomes medicine and wounds bloom wisdom
Yellow the rising sun of truth
A place where no child must hide from the light
Green the forest of memory
Roots tangled with laughter leaves soaked in resilience
Turquoise the sky magic of artists and seers
Where the invisible becomes visible
Indigo the deep lake of peace
Where silence is prayer and breath is communion
Violet the crown of the spirit
Where all stories meet and rise like smoke
And when the world tried to erase our colors
When pink was too wild when turquoise too free
We became rivers rerouted but never dried
We rose again in six sacred tones simplified but sovereign
Still carrying the thunder of the old songs
Then came the new dawn
The black of those buried without justice
The brown of soil and skin long despised
The blue pink and white of our two spirit kin
Of gender as wind as sacred as shifting earth
A chevron an arrow pointing forward
Toward futures not yet born
Where no voice is silenced
Where no love is feared
Where every spirit walks in ceremony
This is not just a flag
It is a sacred bundle
A prayer on cloth
A fire carried in our hands
We are not broken
We are braided
We are not lost
We are legend
Raise the banner
Not just for pride
But for prophecy
For pilgrimage
For the remembering
Piper M Dellums
A growing body of research reveals a devastating truth. LGBTQ+ youth are at significantly higher risk of suicide than their heterosexual peers.
A meta-analysis shows that lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth are three times more likely to attempt suicide than their straight counterparts. For transgender youth, the risk is even higher. Up to 43 percent report having attempted suicide at some point in their lives.
Worldwide, suicide is now the third leading cause of death among people aged 15 to 29.
These numbers are more than statistics. They represent real children and teens lost to pain, isolation, and despair. Most of these losses are driven by bullying, rejection by family, discrimination, and a lack of access to affirming support and care.
At amostperfectlove.org, we walk beside LGBTQ+ youth with compassion, action, and dedication.
We listen to their stories. We believe in their truth. We honor their names and pronouns. These small, daily acts of love can save lives.
We help create affirming environments in schools and communities. When schools offer inclusive spaces like Gay Straight Alliances and are supported by LGBTQ+ friendly staff, suicide rates drop significantly.
We promote access to mental health services that are tailored to LGBTQ+ needs. These services are not optional. They are essential.
We cannot do this sacred work alone. Every voice matters. Every gift makes a difference.
You can join us by taking action today:
• Donate to help expand life saving programs
• Purchase our merchandise, clothing, and books to fund this mission
• Send a Ray of Light gift card to offer someone hope
• Become a Sacred Lighthouse Keeper and stand as a beacon of safety for youth in crisis
They are our future.
Help us protect them. Help us heal them. Help us save the future.
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