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ABOUT OUR FOUNDER - ERICA KAY-WEBSTER

THE ASHES I INHERITED

As early as she can remember, Erica Kay-Webster felt like a female.

"I remember being referred to as a boy and it just didn't register," she said. "I'm a girl. Why can't that be seen?"

Raised by a Pentecostal minister in Southern California, Kay-Webster said school was a nightmare. "I thought I was stupid, that something was wrong with me," she said. "I carried around a great deal of shame, and so I spent so much time hiding."   She had gender reassignment surgery when she was 17 in 1968.

WHAT I BUILT FROM THE BURN

Today, she serves as the Founder and Executive Director of the Foundation, and in the past, she served as vice president of Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). She also served on the Massachusetts Regional Commission on Homelessness for Cape Cod  and the Islands. Today she serves as a community organizer of the LGBT Compassion Games and as the media spokesperson for COMPASSION GAMES as a PEACE AMBASSADOR. She has been the featured speaker at local and national Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender community events and at numerous churches. 

She survived social and domestic abuse, sexual trauma, bullying. homelessness, suicide attempts and false  imprisonment; but nothing could stop her courageous ascension. From Stonewall to the United Nations, Erica Kay-Webster, (author, activist, public speaker, minister, entrepreneur, CEO and wife), established A MOST PERFECT LOVE FOUNDATION, supporting marginalized communities on all four corners of the globe. 


NOW THE TORCH IS YOURS

We have carried the fire through storms and silence. We have risen from ashes not of our making; from children displaced, voices erased lives denied light because of where they were born or how  they were born to love.

But the flame has not gone out.

This is the moment when compassion must become action.

When we must build not only hope,

but homes. Not only dreams, but schools.

Not only prayers, but wells that flow with water and clinics that flow with healing. The forgotten children of war, famine, and poverty, they are not invisible.

The silenced LGBTQ+ youth cast out by fear, they are not disposable. They are ours. They are you. They are me. And they are waiting. Waiting for us to do more than witness. Waiting for us to rise. Let us be the generation that builds sanctuaries,

not walls. Let us feed not just bodies,

but souls. Let us turn pain into purpose,

scar into story, and story into solution.

Because justice without action is just a whisper. And love without sacrifice is just a sentiment. So take this torch;  not as a burden, but as a blessing. Light the way forward. 

with your giving,

your voice,

your heart.

They are waiting.

Let them wait no longer.

WE NEED YOUR SUPPORT

LEARN ABOUT ERICA KAY-WEBSTER'S INVOLVEMENT WITH PFLAG AND THE STONEWALL MONUMENT

“To recognize these passionate heroes who fought on the front lines is to recognize how far we have come, and how far we still need to go as a country to ensure safety and equality for all Americans.”

Washington, DC — PFLAG National Executive Director Jody M. Huckab reacted to the designation of the Stonewall National Monument:

“PFLAG would like to thank President Obama for ensuring the recognition by our government of the history of the LGBTQ movement as part of the history of America. His designation of the Stonewall Inn and the surrounding area as the first national monument commemorating this movement honors hallowed ground, where brave activists like Morty Manford, PFLAG leader and trans activist Erica Kay-Webster, Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and hundreds more said enough is enough, and stood up against violence and bias toward the LGBTQ community.”

PFLAG is the nation’s largest organization dedicated to supporting, educating, and advocating for LGBTQ+ people and those who love them.

PFLAG is an organization of LGBTQ+ people, parents, families, and allies who work together to create an equitable and inclusive world.

We are hundreds of thousands of people and hundreds of chapters from coast to coast who are leading with love to support families, educate allies, and advocate for just, equitable, and inclusive legislation and policies.

Since our founding in 1973, PFLAG works every day to ensure LGBTQ+ people everywhere are safe, celebrated, empowered, and loved.

Learn more, find support, donate, and take action.

Click the link below.

PFLAG National Statement on Stonewall National Monument

The History and Significance of the Rainbow Flag

The Gay Pride Flag, also known as the Rainbow Flag, originated in 1978 and was created by Gilbert Baker, an openly gay artist, activist, and Vietnam War veteran. He was commissioned by Harvey Milk, one of the first openly gay elected officials in the U.S., to create a symbol of pride for the LGBTQ+ community to fly at the San Francisco Gay Freedom Day Parade. Baker saw flags as the most powerful symbol of pride and unity; a language without words. The very first rainbow flag had eight stripes, and each color held a specific symbolic meaning:

Hot Pink – Sex

Red – Life

Orange – Healing

Yellow – Sunlight

Green – Nature

Turquoise – Magic/Art

Indigo – Serenity

Violet – Spirit

This flag was hand-dyed and hand-stitched. Hot pink fabric was expensive and difficult to source, so when the flag was mass-produced in 1979, hot pink was removed. The most widely recognized version of the flag is the six-striped version, which emerged after 1979:

Red – Life

Orange – Healing

Yellow – Sunlight

Green – Nature

Blue – Harmony/Peace

Violet – Spirit

Turquoise and indigo were merged into a single blue stripe to simplify production and allow for even stripes.  The Rainbow Flag became more than just a banner, it became an international symbol of visibility, pride, resistance, and hope for the LGBTQ+ community. It embraces diversity and celebrates unity in difference, much like the spectrum of colors coming together in a single arc. A Declaration of Presence: At a time when being openly gay was dangerous, the flag boldly claimed public space.

A Symbol of Love and Freedom: It challenges shame, stigma, and marginalization with beauty and openness.

A Living, Evolving Emblem: Over time, new variations of the flag have emerged, such as the Progress Pride Flag and the Transgender Flag, to honor the full spectrum of identities within the community.  The flag flies not just as a celebration, but as a memorial, an act of defiance, and a pledge to keep fighting; for safety, dignity, equality, and love.

"The Banner of Becoming" A Poetic Tribute to the Flags of Pride

In a sky once silent, hidden and gray

A whisper rose with the break of day

A thread of color, stitched with grace

To give the unseen a sacred place

Not just a flag, but a living breath

Born from the ache of silence and death

Eight stripes first flew with a fierce desire

Each hue a hymn, a spark, a fire

Hot Pink for bodies unshamed and free

Red for the pulse of life’s decree

Orange for healing soft and wide

Yellow for sunlight that would not hide

Green for nature wild and wise

Turquoise for magic in open skies

Indigo for serenity’s call

Violet for spirit that binds it all

But cloth was rare and cost was high

So pink was lost to a mourning sky

Turquoise and indigo found new form

Merged as blue in a rising storm

Then six stripes rose in 1979

A simplified banner bold by design

It waved with joy from soul to soul

A legacy stitched to make us whole

Red for the beating heart of life

Orange for healing after strife

Yellow for sunlight breaking through

Green for earth and all that’s true

Blue for peace in every fight

Violet for spirit fierce and bright

This was the flag that caught the wind

In marches vigils love unpinned

It flew in grief it flew in grace

It carved a home in public space

But still the banner dared to grow

For truth runs deeper than we know

And voices long kept in the shade

Called for justice long delayed

Black for those whose lives were lost

Brown for the roots and the heavy cost

White pink and light blue entwined

Trans colors sacred redefined

They point like arrows to the sky

Saying we are here and we will not die

So the Progress Flag with stripes renewed

Carries the flame of a broader truth

It honors the many still unseen

The black the brown the in-between

It tells the world we’re still becoming

We’re still resisting we’re still homecoming

From Stonewall’s cry to today’s parade

This banner is the love we made

So raise it high where stories unfold

A skybound promise in scarlet and gold

For we are the many the brave the true

And every color still carries you. 

Piper Dellums 6/21/2025                                                                                        

A Blessing for the Two-Spirit & Transcendent Ones

O Sacred Ones,

You who walk with two feet in many worlds

You are not broken.

You are not lost.

You are ancient.

Before borders, before binaries,

Before the forgetting

You were already here

Seen by the Elders,

Blessed by the Sky People,

Named by the drumbeats of the Earth.

You are not “other.”

You are whole.

You are the thunderbird with two wings. You are the mountain that speaks in more than one tongue.

You are the fire that holds both flame and ash,

The river that knows both source and sea.

You are the Oneness of the Oneness.

Neither confined nor divided,

But woven

By the Creator who dreams in all directions.

You carry within you

the medicine of balance,

the bridge between the sun and moon,

the sacred harmony of masculine and feminine, sky and soil,

being and becoming.

The ignorant may call you names.

The frightened may cast you out.

But we see you.

And we call you:

Truthwalker. Wisdomkeeper. Spirit Weaver.

You were never meant to conform.

You were sent to transform.

To teach the world that identity is sacred ceremony,

That love is not bound by body,

That the soul is a spectrum

dancing in and out of form,

as Spirit does.

So when you feel alone,

Remember:

Your ancestors danced in your bones.

They wore feathers and paint. They carried dreams from both sides of the fire.

They honored you.

So must we.

To our Two-Spirit family,

To our Transcendent kin

You are not transsexual.

You are transcendental.

Trans-Elemental.

Trans-Miraculous.

You are here

not to survive this world

but to help it remember

how to love without condition,

how to see without separation,

how to become without fear.

May you walk in beauty,

Speak with thunder,

Dream in both directions,

And know always

You are not alone.

You are prophesied.

You are perfectly placed.

You are Divine.

Piper Dellums 6/21/2025



A Sacred Prayer of the Colors

O Great Spirit who weaves the cosmos in hues unseen

Who speaks in flame in feather in stream

You called us forth from the womb of silence

To rise in color to sing in light

To dance our truth upon the sky

In the beginning we were scattered stars

Whispers in bone echoes in water

Yet we remembered the song of return

The sacred ribbon of who we are

So we stitched a banner from the breath of the ancestors

Hot Pink the breath of creation the sacred fire of flesh

Where touch is holy and bodies are drums

Red the river of life pulsing through lineage and land

The bloodline of warriors and dreamers

Orange the healing flame of the West

Where grief becomes medicine and wounds bloom wisdom

Yellow the rising sun of truth

A place where no child must hide from the light

Green the forest of memory

Roots tangled with laughter leaves soaked in resilience

Turquoise the sky magic of artists and seers

Where the invisible becomes visible

Indigo the deep lake of peace

Where silence is prayer and breath is communion

Violet the crown of the spirit

Where all stories meet and rise like smoke

And when the world tried to erase our colors

When pink was too wild when turquoise too free

We became rivers rerouted but never dried

We rose again in six sacred tones simplified but sovereign

Still carrying the thunder of the old songs

Then came the new dawn

The black of those buried without justice

The brown of soil and skin long despised

The blue pink and white of our two spirit kin

Of gender as wind as sacred as shifting earth

A chevron an arrow pointing forward

Toward futures not yet born

Where no voice is silenced

Where no love is feared

Where every spirit walks in ceremony

This is not just a flag

It is a sacred bundle

A prayer on cloth

A fire carried in our hands

We are not broken

We are braided

We are not lost

We are legend

Raise the banner

Not just for pride

But for prophecy

For pilgrimage

For the remembering

Piper M Dellums

APPROX. 104,600 LGBTQ+ TEEN SUICIDES A YEAR = 5 A MINUTE

The Truth We Cannot Ignore

A growing body of research reveals a devastating truth. LGBTQ+ youth are at significantly higher risk of suicide than their heterosexual peers.

A meta-analysis shows that lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth are three times more likely to attempt suicide than their straight counterparts. For transgender youth, the risk is even higher. Up to 43 percent report having attempted suicide at some point in their lives.

Worldwide, suicide is now the third leading cause of death among people aged 15 to 29.

These numbers are more than statistics. They represent real children and teens lost to pain, isolation, and despair. Most of these losses are driven by bullying, rejection by family, discrimination, and a lack of access to affirming support and care.

What We Do at A Most Perfect Love

At amostperfectlove.org, we walk beside LGBTQ+ youth with compassion, action, and dedication.

We listen to their stories. We believe in their truth. We honor their names and pronouns. These small, daily acts of love can save lives.

We help create affirming environments in schools and communities. When schools offer inclusive spaces like Gay Straight Alliances and are supported by LGBTQ+ friendly staff, suicide rates drop significantly.

We promote access to mental health services that are tailored to LGBTQ+ needs. These services are not optional. They are essential.

How You Can Help

We cannot do this sacred work alone. Every voice matters. Every gift makes a difference.

You can join us by taking action today:

• Donate to help expand life saving programs

• Purchase our merchandise, clothing, and books to fund this mission

• Send a Ray of Light gift card to offer someone hope

• Become a Sacred Lighthouse Keeper and stand as a beacon of safety for youth in crisis

Our Teens Are Dying

They are our future.

Help us protect them. Help us heal them. Help us save the future.

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